Why We Serve Pro-Doms !

I served my first pro-dom over 30 years ago when I was 19 . One of the first things the Mistress did was realize how scared I was ! I had had dreamed of being a Woman's Slave since I was a child. She allowed me to be who I wanted to be. Today I am Mistress Ardenne 's Slave ! I have served her for almost 2 1/2 years. 5 months after, I began seeing her , I was diagnosed with MS ! Mistress Ardenne has been there for me every step of the way ! Pro-Doms give so much to subs/slaves like me !
I have felt for a long time many people including some in the D/S community don't appreciate the special relationship between a pro-dom and their sub/slave. I hope through my blog and the sub/club to enlighten people about that special relationship !
For many subs/slaves like me walking through the doors of a dungeon is a life transforming experience. Our desire to be a sub/slave has been with us for longtime.Maybe We, thought it would go away. A Psychologist told me that when I was 15 ! I grew into being a slave not out of it ! Maybe, We tried to be like everyone else ! I did that too ! Other's in our lives may reject or attack us for our wishes. Mistresses accept us ! For some of us it's the first time ,We have gotten that level of acceptance.
Mistresses don 't try to change us or judge us ! Mistress Ardenne does of course try to help us change to better ourselves Yes they may laugh at us . Mistress Ardenne laughs at me for doing "silly slave things " and my lack of manhood . .Mistress is not laughing at me out of cruelty but out of kindness.It's kind because she is allowing me to be who I want !

They also listen to us. Our fantasies are important to us. Will other people in your life do that ?
Mistresses also have realistic expectations of their subs/ slaves . I previously served Mistress Carrie for many year. They both share so many wonderful qualities. One of them is they have realistic expectations. Years ago I tried to help paint Arena. I was awful. Mistress Carrie thanked me for trying told me not to be upset. She never asked me to paint again ! As I got sicker I was unable, somethings I loved to do for Mistress Ardenne. Mistress helped me adjust to my new reality !
Mistresses are healers ! They free us from any guilt or shame we may have about who we are . They give us a chance to live out our fantasies and most importantly have fun ! Thanks to Mistress Ardenne and all the pro-doms who have been so wonderful to me ! Your the best!

Sub Club !

I am excited to announce on my first Post ! The Sub Club will be meeting the second Saturday of each month at Purple Passion on 211 West 20 st between 8-9 ave from 4- 5:30 , Special Thanks to my friends at Purple Passion for allowing us to use the space. The Sub Club is a group devoted to submissive men who pre-dominatly serve pro -doms. We get together to have a few laughs , share good times and support each other! We are proud to be submissive ! Special Thanks to Mistress Ardenne and everyone at Rapture for their support ! Hope to see you there !