tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6040965526562019572011-04-21T11:09:36.818-07:00I am a slave who serves Mistress Ardenne a pro-dom who works for Rapture in NYC. She is the best! I have been serving pro-doms for over 30 years! I consider the rest of life role play. I am one of the founders of the NYC Sub Club, a group for submissive men who serve pro-doms.PuppydogJohnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12616372902045271041noreply@blogger.comBlogger21100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-604096552656201957.post-73684230871105132872008-07-14T13:46:00.000-07:002008-07-14T14:39:23.931-07:00I served my first pro-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">dom</span> over 30 years ago when I was 19 . One of the first things the Mistress did was realize how scared I was ! I had had dreamed of being a Woman's Slave since I was a child. She allowed me to be who I wanted to be. Today I am Mistress <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Ardenne</span> 's Slave ! I have served her for almost 2 1/2 years. 5 months after, I began seeing her , I was diagnosed with MS ! Mistress <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Ardenne</span> has been there for me every step of the way ! Pro-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Doms</span> give so much to subs/slaves like me !<br /> I have felt for a long time many people including some in the D/S community don't appreciate the special relationship between a pro-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">dom</span> and their sub/slave. I hope through my blog and the sub/club to enlighten people about that special relationship !<br /> For many subs/slaves like me walking through the doors of a dungeon is a life transforming experience. Our desire to be a sub/slave has been with us for longtime.Maybe We, thought it would go away. A Psychologist told me that when I was 15 ! I grew into being a slave not out of it ! Maybe, We tried to be like everyone else ! I did that too ! Other's in our lives may reject or attack us for our wishes. Mistresses accept us ! For some of us it's the first time ,We have gotten that level of acceptance.<br /> Mistresses don 't try to change us or judge us ! Mistress Ardenne does of course try to help us change to better ourselves Yes they may laugh at us . Mistress <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Ardenne</span> laughs at me for doing "silly slave things " and my lack of manhood . .Mistress is not laughing at me out of cruelty but out of kindness.It's kind because she is allowing me to be who I want !<br /> <br /> They also listen to us. Our fantasies are important to us. Will other people in your life do that ?<br />Mistresses also have realistic expectations of their subs/ slaves . I previously served Mistress Carrie for many year. They both share so many wonderful qualities. One of them is they have realistic expectations. Years ago I tried to help paint Arena. I was awful. Mistress Carrie thanked me for trying told me not to be upset. She never asked me to paint again ! As I got sicker I was unable, somethings I loved to do for Mistress <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Ardenne</span>. Mistress helped me adjust to my new reality !<br /> Mistresses are healers ! They free us from any guilt or shame we may have about who we are . They give us a chance to live out our fantasies and most importantly have fun ! Thanks to Mistress <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Ardenne</span> and all the pro-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">doms</span> who have been so wonderful to me ! Your the best!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/604096552656201957-7368423087110513287?l=puppydogjohn.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>PuppydogJohnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12616372902045271041noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-604096552656201957.post-31828427666602108832008-07-13T19:10:00.000-07:002008-07-13T19:17:42.470-07:00I am excited to announce on my first Post ! The Sub Club will be meeting the second Saturday of each month at Purple Passion on 211 West 20 st between 8-9 ave from 4- 5:30 , Special Thanks to my friends at Purple Passion for allowing us to use the space. The Sub Club is a group devoted to submissive men who pre-dominatly serve pro -doms. We get together to have a few laughs , share good times and support each other! We are proud to be submissive ! Special Thanks to Mistress Ardenne and everyone at Rapture for their support ! Hope to see you there !<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/604096552656201957-3182842766660210883?l=puppydogjohn.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>PuppydogJohnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12616372902045271041noreply@blogger.com0